Which direction will you choose?

Which direction will you choose?

Success or failure?

I supposed all of us want success right? But what is the key to success?

The key to success is not actually by studying hard, smart, and keen in it. The key to success is actually loving the subject, despite knowing that the subject may be such a bore to you, or a subject that kills you a lot, just love em guys! And also the first step to success is actually fall! You fall and don't wept like a cry baby if a person looks down on you. The truth is ugly! HAHAHA Got that from Ugly truth, but its true guys, Seriously, not all humans are born with such direct loving personality, they are the people who I label as "Love is mean people"

The way they show their concern is by harsh words that actually will demoralized you but the fact is they are motivating you, but of course the wrong way. But too bad, they are born in a life they used to live with their forefathers. We all know that the olden days and the modern lifestyle is different. But look at the modern life, what we are amiss from the term hardship. A hardship

that one should feel and take it as a booster in life to work harder in life!

Why not you take the challenge to actually show them that you can do it! Instead of saying, I'm trying, I'm trying, don't try! Stop trying and just do it! Yes just do it like how Nike says it!

First, you know that you are at falling state, well you are already falling! That's good, but the consequences are hearing the nagging, the demoralize words from your parents. You wanna know why they nag and disappointed with you? It's because they work their ass off to feed you clothes, pocket money, transport money, bags, books, living, schooling and almost everything you want they give it to you!

But what did you give it back to them? Nothing! Parents want you to do well in school! That's all!

What they wanna see from you is their children being successful in life. They doesn't wanna see you drowning in life, cos the FUTURE IS NOT EASY! Get this in your head!

Seriously, have you seen your parents work? Have you ever thought of it? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes? Have you ever have a minute thoughts about why they nag at you? Besides thinking about they are looking down at you, think why they nag?

It's your fault thats why they nag! Look, some parents will look down at you and not giving such moral support, cos they don't want it to be like a,"Masuk telinga kanan, keluar telinga kiri." Yes they are at fault too, cos some words of motivation will hype us up. But be surprised, some children will say, 'Alaa I know la I know..'

So guys, if your parents nag at you, hug em and say,'I love you, Dad, mum, for nagging me, i know you love me.' Just say something like this to them.

3 steps to apologize!

1) Tell them your sorry

2) Tell them the truth

3) Ask them how you can make it right to them?

That really shows how sincerity you are. I learnt this from Randy Paush.

After you fall in the deep blue sea of tears you have shed, what is your second step?

PICK YOURSELF UP!

What do you do to pick yourself up? Breathe in and just close your eyes and see yourself, making your parents smiling, by showing them that you are not going to disappoint them again.

How? First you need to really love your enemy! That is your most hated subject, put in much interest in it, if you don't know? ASK! ASK YOUR TEACHER! THEY WILL HELP YOU!

Second, STOP SKIPPING SCHOOL! WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TO SKIP SCHOOL LIKE AS IF IT'S A FREE SCHOOL! DON'T YOU FEEL GRATEFUL THAT YOU ARE FORTUNATE TO BE IN SCHOOL. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO WANTS TO BE IN SCHOOL BUT DUE TO THEIR STATE THEY CAN'T SO CAN YOU STOP BEING BEING BEING SUCH AN ARROGANT PUPIL AND NOT WANTING TO GO TO SCHOOL.

If you say that the teacher is boring, oh let me tell you, you are more boring! Cos you bore yourself to death that you pointed others are boring. Look, not all will get a fantasy teacher, but you need to understand them, you need to work with them. Let me tell you, I love strict teachers cos when you really work with them, you see they are the most loving teacher and have great sense of love towards their students, at the end of the day you will be jumping with joy cos you have great ace and you will remember that strict teacher actually changes your life. But the fact is, you did it.

So stop pointing others fault! And don't blame your parents or teachers if they look down on you or scolding you. Cos you have been skipping school. You think its cool? It's effing not! Seriously it's not! You're just wasting your life! Don't you want to learn something in life? Or just wasting your time out there with your friends who just wants to have fun?

Let me tell you something that will eventually be a hurtful one, but the truth is ugly!

True friends are friends who will ask you out to study and do something good, they may not be the nerdy geeky ones but the beautiful ones who cares about your future too. They want to see success in you and together no jealous of barrier amongst each other. Hey there are some people who will say, 'I know you're cleverer than me and bla bla bla..'

Let me give you a clear picture, do you want your life to be like this in 10 years time or you want to see yourself with a career? Think about it!

So I've touched on the 2 steps of the fall and the rise. Now the last step, if you want to be on top, you have to walk your way to the thick and thin forest, climb the mountains and above the clouds you will find your place to flag high your happiness.

The last thing to do is, don't do it for your own, but also for your parents. You are happy, you're parents are happy too. Whenever I think about my parents, having the hard time raising me up to give my every needs, my wants and my life, I just burst into tears. They sacrifice their time mostly at work to financially support me and they spend their time in any ways to support you. But if you already giving up on yourself, how can they not give up on you?

It's not hard to study, it's easy, yes it may be boring and stuff, then make it fun, maths is fun you know seriously, you have to play with it. Science is a killer to memorize, but its amusing when you get to experiment it. English is a language killer, but if you practice it verbally, you can make it.

What's so hard in life? What is it? Ask people who are working out there or those drop outs or anyone who is not schooling right now. Ask them, if you are given an opportunity to study, would you like to study or do what you are doing now? I've asked them, and mostly wants to study.

In a few years to come, I will be doing my services and then perhaps pursuing my studies in Uni, insya'allah if i get an opportunity, indeed I want to, and then working lifestyle.

My friends, brothers, sisters and aliens, please don't waste your life by thinking about fun fun fun. It won't lead you to no where. Yes you can have fun, but after you've done your homework and revision? If you reached home and felt tired to study,

DON'T STUDY! COS YOU'RE TIRED!

Just take a break, play the net and etc or sleep! Then you get back on your butt on that chair and start doing your work. I believe that each of us wants success and not failure in life. Cos our life is only once, but our opportunity comes like a golden chance. So don't waste it okay! :D

Lastly, if you want a better atmosphere at home, start building it and make it happen like magic.

'Children brings happiness in the family.'

PS: I'm sorry if some of my words are too harsh or too loud to read, But that is a wake up call for you and me. :D I hope this post is a message for us to stop complaining but start working hard. :D